Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones. Proverbs 16:24 NIV
Healing words. Not complicated sermons. Not grand gestures. Just gracious words.
Recently I learned this simple idea called the “Tell Them Theory.”
If a waiter was kind to you, tell them.
If your friend looked good today, tell them.
If someone’s work inspired you, tell them.
It’s such a small idea — yet how rarely do we practice it. We often notice good things in people, but the words stay locked inside our thoughts. Criticism travels quickly. Encouragement moves slowly.
I think of the cashier who has been standing all day. The tired waiter serving meals. The volunteer who wonders if anyone noticed. The friend who quietly struggles but still shows up with a smile. A few words of appreciation can become a light in someone’s ordinary day.
When I think about Jesus, I realize he lived this theory fully. He noticed people others ignored. He told the Roman centurion, “I have not found anyone in Israel with such great faith.” He affirmed the woman who poured perfume on his feet. He looked at his disciples and said, “You are the light of the world.”
Jesus saw goodness, faith, and love in people, and he said it out loud.
Perhaps this is one small way we can reflect God’s heart each day. When we see kindness, speak it. When we notice effort, affirm it.
A few words may seem small to us. But to someone else, they may be exactly what their heart needed.
Prayer
Lord, open my eyes to the quiet kindness around me. Give me courage to speak words that heal and uplift. May my words reflect Your grace today. Amen.
By Bermie Dizon, Elder
Glendora, CA, US
