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Death of Marj Friddle

We were saddened to learn of the death of our dear sister, Marj Friddle, wife of retired GCI pastor James (“Jimmie”) Friddle. Here is a note from Jimmie.

James and Marj at their wedding.
Jimmie and Marj on their wedding day

Marj and I deeply appreciated all the hundreds of heartfelt expressions of love, compassion and encouragement through your calls, cards, emails and Facebook posts. Thank you!

Marj died on February 21 at 11:00 am. She was at peace and surrounded by her family when she passed. She was truly a Proverbs 31 companion with whom I shared 60 years of life. She was the life of our marriage and I miss her.


Marj’s memorial will be held on March 9 at 10:30 am at the Congregational Church of Northridge at 9659 Balboa Blvd., Northridge, California 91325.


Here are tributes that have appeared on Marj’s Facebook page:

  • Truly a wise and loving woman! She dealt with so many health issues over the years yet handled them with such GRACE! What an incredible example she was. My heart feels heavy and I’ve shed tears, yet I smile because I know she’s not in pain anymore! I know she was met by her Savior and heard the words….WELL DONE GOOD AND FAITHFUL SERVANT! Till we meet again! I love you Mrs Friddle. You will be missed by many!
  • Marj (at center) with her family
    Marj (at center) with her family

    My sincerest sympathy to Marj’s family and to all who loved her—what a gracious, lovely, kind, compassionate, fun-loving woman she was. I have so many lovely memories of her during my teen years and beyond. Whenever we saw one another, though it was not often, it was as though we had never been apart. She always greeted me with the same loving kindness… May we all follow your loving example.

  • I am so very sorry to hear of the death of Marj Friddle. What a beautiful person she was. I have many fond memories of the Friddle family when they lived in Pennsylvania. I actually had the opportunity to baby-sit for them. What a lovely family! She will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her. The family is in my thoughts and prayers—may God comfort them at this very difficult time. I know we will all see her again—like she said: “I will meet you in the morning.”
  • Marj with her granddaughter Ashley Allen
    Marj with her granddaughter Ashley Allen

    Marj was always such a beautiful source of heartfelt encouragement, which she gave generously… She will be greatly missed by hundreds of dear friends.

  • I was saddened to hear of Mrs Friddle’s passing, but could not help smiling remembering her beautiful smile and presence. Our prayers are with Mr. Friddle and family.

Cards may be sent to Marj’s husband James and the rest of family at:

James Friddle
7404 Stillwater Dr
Bayonet Point, FL 34667-2293

Bob Miller

Bob and Ruth
Bob and Ruth

Bob Miller, pastor of three GCI churches in Alabama (Birmingham, Good Hope and Hokes Bluff) retired last May but continues to work part-time.

Bob started serving people a long time ago when he worked as a bellhop at a motel while in high school. “I assisted the manager in waiting on customers, ran the switch board—one with all the wires like you see in old movies. I would make beds and clean rooms. A daily ritual was to wash the glasses at the local restaurant and wrap them for the maids to put in the rooms. I turned on lights at night (screwing in the light bulb at every outside door) and shoveled snow during winter. Our business rate for a single room was $6.30 a night.”

Bob, who grew up in Uniontown, Pennsylvania, had a desire to teach from a young age, “but no real direction in my life. I have never been one to do a lot of long-term planning. I believe God has nudged and pulled me along and placed me where he wanted me to be—sometimes with me pulling a Jonah and trying to run.”

Bob started attending the then Radio Church of God in Pittsburgh when he was 16.

I rode to church with a neighbor who had taught the MYF (Methodist Youth Fellowship) I attended. Another young man, who became a WCG pastor, now deceased, Danny Bierer, rode with us—he and I attended high school together. Jimmie Friddle was our pastor and recommended us for Ambassador College. I consider him my father in the faith. As a young man I found the church’s teaching something solid I could grasp and it gave me a sense of direction and purpose in life. I found, being a teenager, a lot of encouragement and acceptance from the way the members loved and supported me.

Ambassador College gave Bob more than an education. It was on the Big Sandy, Texas campus that Bob met his wife-to-be, Ruth. “We were married at Big Sandy by Dean Blackwell on January 22, 1977.” Bob and Ruth just celebrated their 36th anniversary in January. They have three children: Lisa; Laurie, who is married to Mike; and Brian, who is married to Kristen. They have one grandchild, Jackson Miller Dewey, who is 2½ years old. Another grandchild is due in May.

Ruth has a passion for women’s ministry and has been leading a fall women’s retreat for many years. She also enjoys teaching, and is currently teaching a women’ss discipleship class in their Birmingham congregation. She also gives occasional sermons. She works full-time as church secretary for Saint Mark United Methodist Church in Vestavia Hills.

After graduating college, Bob served for a short time as a ministerial trainee in Tennessee. In 1970 he began working for a US Steel subsidiary in Akron, Ohio working in their data entry and computer department for five years. He eventually moved to church headquarters in Pasadena and was hired full time in the Postal department and ended up working in the Ambassador Publishing department all through the 70s and 80s. He also served as a deacon in the HQ congregations. “I was ordained an elder in 1988 and sent to Birmingham, Alabama in 1989 as an assistant pastor. When the doctrinal changes were introduced, we lost our senior pastor and I took his place in 1995. I have served in this area ever since.”

Bob said the best part of being a pastor is “giving encouragement and helping someone find their spiritual giftedness to serve God.” This is clear from his most memorable moment as a pastor. “I was blessed to baptize a man in prison and twenty-three years later participate in his ordination and serve with him in ministry.”

Bob and Ruth love that GCI has enabled them to be part of a worldwide family. “Ruth and I have been privileged to serve in many aspects of the denominational work and have come to know and love many dear friends. GCI has been so good to us and the way our denomination presents the gospel is the most encouraging message I can imagine.”

Bob’s hobby is gardening, but his passion is to help others understand the love of God. “My passion is to nurture and encourage others in their faith journey.”

When asked about people who have been mentors for Bob, he was quick to respond. “Two men come to mind: Jimmie Friddle and Roger Lippross. One was my pastor and the other my boss. Both encouraged me to do better and gave me opportunities to improve my life and the lives of those I love. They both set examples of faith, perseverance and a love for preaching the gospel.”

Asked when he feels closest to God, Bob said, “When struggling with life’s problems and receiving the peace of God during prayer and the counsel of my best friend and dear wife that keeps me on track.”

GCI Netherlands magazine

This update is from Frans Danenberg, GCI ministry leader in the Netherlands.

LitelineA new door opened recently for our magazine LifeLine! Hans de Moei and I met with Henk Rothuizen of Evangelische Omroep (Evangelical Broadcasting) (EO). Henk is active in media in the Netherlands, taking care of online pastoral help and interactive Bible courses. He is interested in our understanding of the Trinity and has been impressed by our changes since 1995. Henk acknowledges God’s hand in our journey and is willing to help us since he has planted 30 churches in the Netherlands where he trains church planters.

EO seeks to reach as many people for Christ as possible and to help build society. EO asked if they could use some of our articles from LifeLine in their work. Of course, we said “Yes.” To our surprise, they choose 20 articles from recent LifeLine issues. They will reference our website with the articles as well as the names of the authors.

So suddenly we are reaching the whole country! We updated our website (www.lifelinemagazine.nl) by posting interviews with our local pastors so that visitors can see real people talking. LifeLine editor Denise de Moei is doing an excellent job—the magazine has never looked better. It is encouraging to see LifeLine reaching a wider audience.

RABIM in Thailand

This update concerns GCI’s Rayong Bible Ministries (RABIM), operating in Thailand. Its leaders and members are mostly GCI Philippine missionaries.

RABIM recently held a fifth anniversary celebration with the theme “His indescribable gifts.” It was attended by about 150 Thai and Filipino friends. Dancers and other performers added to the festive spirit.

RABIM 5 year

Other recent RABIM outreach events included joining with the Powermen group in the annual Students’ Day at a remote area on the border of Laos and Thailand. Various events were held with the sponsoring school being given various supplies and cash to fund school projects. RABIM missionaries also participated in a year-end party at a juvenile reformatory where the young offenders showed what they had learned and were encouraged to develop skills while still detained. Four RABIM teachers, led by Pastor Joel Alisbo, also recently started a “Happy Class,” which meets every Saturday at an orphanage in Huayphong. The volunteers are excited to help motivate the Thai orphans—please remember the teachers and orphans in your prayers.

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Philippine Advisory Council meets

Advisory Council meets
Philippine Advisory Council

Eugene Guzon, national director of GCI Philippines recently led a meeting of the advisory council at the national office. The purpose of the meeting was to discuss concerns related to the national church in the Philippines.

The meeting began with a devotional from Pastor Mario Natividad, which focused on 1 Peter 5:7, emphasizing casting our cares on the Lord. Eugene then gave an update on progress related to GCI Philippines’ four strategic goals:

  • Concerning members rooted, Eugene noted the importance of continued discipleship in local churches. A “discipleship pathway” is being designed as a tool to help the local churches. Eugene also reported that there were several national and regional conferences held last year to address Trinitarian theology. The conferences were conducted by denominational leaders from the US.
  • Concerning leaders raised, Eugene expressed the need for a continuing leadership development program to address the growing need for more leaders for the various national and local church needs and ministries.
  • Concerning communities rejoice, Eugene reported that GCI Philippines sponsored a series of medical missions and other bridge building events in the past year.
  • Concerning nations reached, Eugene reported that missions training sessions were conducted in different parts of the country. Our missionaries have had mission trips to Korea and China. Our Thailand missions team is doing well in Thailand. We also have received good news from the Tabin family that they are settling well in the US where they have moved to start a new GCI church in the Los Angeles area.

Debbie Orogo of Financial Services reported that the overall financial status of GCI Philippines is positive. In the afternoon, Pastor Audie Santibanez facilitated the discussions as the council deliberated on various concerns related to the national church.

Big Sandy couple honored

GCI members Jerome and Helen Ellard were recently named “Man and Woman of the Year” by the Big Sandy, Texas Chamber of Commerce. Here is the article that appeared on the front page of the local newspaper, The Big Sandy & Hawkins Journal.

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Helen and Jerome Ellard

Jerome and Helen Ellard were named “Big Sandy’s Man and Woman of the Year 2013” during the annual Chamber of Commerce Banquet in Big Sandy last week. This is an outstanding honor for someone to receive and especially a couple. The Chamber Board of Directors after consideration of several nominees from the community selected them as this year’s honorees. The selection was made on the basis of all around contributions to the community, not just for extraordinary performance in the individual’s business or employment. The directors were told that the nominees should have a consistent track record of accomplishments rather than being honored for a single act of merit. One of the keys to selection comes from the fact that the total person should be considered. Things such as general involvement in the community, public and civic service, organizations and church participations, outstanding special achievements, etc. The individuals selected should be ones who make personal sacrifices and give of themselves above and beyond the call of duty to help others.

Jerome is an elder in New Beginnings GCI where he and Helen serve on a ministerial team and are well known in the community for their service to others. They serve and volunteer out of a sincere desire to serve and not to be seen for what they do. “Let your light shine” can truthfully be seen in their lives. Our community benefits from the example that they set for others. Their willingness to serve no matter the area just reflects their faith and desire to encourage and help others to be lifted up. When you see one you find the other always serving.

There were dozens of activities and community projects listed that they have participated in during their ten years as a couple. Most of these are church related and carry over into helping to improve the community and spread the gospel through service to others.

They have always been individuals that truthfully meet the main criteria mentioned under the guidelines that states, ”be an individual who makes personal sacrifices and gives of himself/ herself above and beyond the call of duty to help others.”

Over the past four years three couples from New Beginnings have been named Man and Woman of the Year by the Chamber.

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Johannsen grandson born

This announcement is from GCI pastor Doug Johannsen and his wife Betty.

Our daughter Dana Rittermann and her husband Eric are the proud parents of a baby boy born on February 8. Isaac came into the world at 8 pounds 7 ounces, 21 inches long. Dana had difficulties throughout the pregnancy but the last three or four weeks were normal. We know that a lot of people joined Jesus in praying for this little fellow and we want to express our thanks to everyone.

The Rittermann Family
The Rittermann family

Mozambique

This prayer update is from GCI Mozambique church secretary Manuel Vasco. For the earlier prayer request, click here.

We have now visited 22 of the 32 GCI churches located in Northern Mozambique that were devastated by the recent flooding. The flood waters have washed away their crops. Some have tried to replant, but after the corn germinated, heavy rains washed that away too. As a result, much hunger lies ahead as they subsist on water lilies, green bananas and roots.

We encountered people crying out for help, and they were very grateful for the financial assistance we gave to help them buy rice, corn or flour—enough for about two weeks. It is my understanding that once they replant, it is six to eight weeks before they can harvest. The situation is desperate. The government is not helping much in the areas where we have congregations, instead focusing their aid to the south where the devastation was greater. We ask for prayer for our suffering brothers and sisters.

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GCI in the US is assisting our Mozambique congregations through the GCI Disaster Relief Fund. If your church would like to donate to this fund, have your church treasurer make a one time or recurring donation using the online donation system. If preferred, you may donate by a check made payable to Grace Communion International; noting on the memo line that the donation is for the GCI Disaster Relief Fund. Mail the check to:

GCI Disaster Relief Fund
Grace Communion International
P.O. Box 5005
Glendora, California 91740

Bangladesh multi-purpose center

From its Disaster Relief Fund, GCI donated US$30,000 to the Bengali Evangelical Association. That donation is funding the rebuilding of a church multi-purpose building that had to be razed due to damage from a typhoon that recently devastated parts of Bangladesh. Here are pictures of the rebuilding progress.

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Gathering bricks for the building
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Groundbreaking ceremony
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Working on the foundation