After those 10 weeks together, they returned to their respective campuses, and the relationship sparked in Israel continued by letter through their final year. They were reunited in the U.S. as Rod returned home to be employed by the church in Australia. It took Ruth three months to get a visa, but they were finally married in Blackheath, Australia in October 1973.
Their two sons were born in Australia, before future assignments for the church took them to Pasadena (Rod working in the international office of the church), then to the Philippines for more than five years and finally back to Australia.
Ruth’s role of support to Rod as regional director in the Philippines, Australia, and then Asia and Oceania, brought her into contact with hundreds of people from many cultures. She related well to them all and gained many friends and much respect with her ability to listen, understand, identify, and empathize with them.
While being the anchor at home during Rod’s absences travelling for the church, Ruth used social media adeptly to strengthen and expand her international connections. She was invited to speak at local women’s retreats, and this expanded to invitations from further afield. Ruth was guest speaker at women’s conferences in New Zealand, Malaysia, Singapore, Fiji, as well as in Australia.
She was asked to give messages to her local Gold Coast congregation, and as an integral part of the pastoral team there, was ordained as an elder on December 13, 2020, the second woman to be ordained in our fellowship in Australia.
Behind these scenes Ruth also wrote monthly articles that were posted on the GCI Australasian Women’s Ministry website. They were widely read and appreciated because they were clear, down-to-earth, and practical yet creative and with great depth. Her articles nurtured people through words; they were another reflection of her nature and her responsiveness to the motivation of the Spirit.
Ruth was diagnosed with cancer in early 2022 and underwent intermittent sessions of treatment in the two years that followed. She passed away on November 12, 2023. She is survived by three of her four brothers, sons, Tim and his wife, Erica, Ben and his wife Sarah, and eight grandchildren spread over two continents.
Her positive impact on the lives of people all over the world was reflected by the hundreds of Facebook entries posted after her death and the number of condolence cards received. As one close friend wrote, “Ruth had a real gift of making anyone who came into her orbit feel like they were her best friend.” Another summed it up with, “She was so genuine, loving, joyful, and faithful.” Her kindness, generosity, humour, and love were simply reflections of her walk with Jesus; and the depth of Spirit in her messages will be greatly missed. As a close relative so succinctly put it, she was a beacon of love and light.
Rod and Ruth’s entire family thank you for your love, support and encouragement.